Planning a vacation or simple getaway takes time and much thought. Whether you want to experience new things and explore or just want to relax near a beach for a weekend, vacations are needed for rejuvenating world views and appreciation. When you want to take some time away with your spouse, you have to consider all of the things you would planning a normal vacation. If you’re tired of the simple date night and want to up to the romance, planning a weekend getaway or week-long vacation to focus on your spouse can be an ideal decision.

Romance is needed in a relationship and it will keep the relationship together. Travel is one of many things that help keep the romance alive. There are benefits of traveling with your spouse. You get to experience a new culture, place, and environment with your best friend and lover in one. It will strengthen your bond and create new memories that will hold your relationship together.

1. Decide on a destination

The first thing you should do is decide what destination you want to vacation in. If you don’t want to stay within your country, understand the needed items if you want to travel overseas. You can decide on a destination by thinking about what kind of vacation you want to have. Do you want to put a focus on romance? Or do you want to have a more exciting and playful vacation?

Talk with your spouse to see what they want to get out of the vacation to help you both decide on where you want to go. The most popular romantic destinations are as follows:

• Santorini, Greece
• The Maldives
• Carmel, California
• Florence, Italy
• Kauai, Hawaii
• Savannah, Georgia
• And more

2. Set a budget

Your budget matters and you want to discuss what kind of budget you should have with your partner. Create a budget that fits your lifestyle to remain realistic. You want to think about all the things your money will be going to come up with the best budget plan, from packing and clothes to hotels and food. Think about what kind of activities you both will want to do and factor in the costs. Think about the destination you chose to also figure how small or large your budget should be.

It can be hard to determine exactly how much you’re going to spend so you should leave your budget flexible enough to be ready for spontaneous activity or emergencies. It can be uncomfortable to be away from home and not have enough money to enjoy yourself to the fullest. If you have to take a little time to plan and save, do so. You will be happy you did when your vacation dates come along.

3. Find the perfect resort or hotel

Finding the perfect resort for your romantic stay will be based on what kind of place you want to visit. There are many resorts available if you’re looking in the right place. Vacation rentals are easy to come by, especially in this day in age of technology. Determine what amount of money you want to spend. The more money you spend the more sophisticated and luxurious your hotel or resort stay will be. If you’re on a strict budget it is easy to find a place that fits. 

Determine what you want to have in your room and the accommodations you need. Whether you want a suite with a view or a nice jacuzzi in the room. Whether you want it to be near city life or further away to escape. There are many things to consider. You can make this easier by creating a list of the things you and your partner would love to experience during your stay.

4. Determine what activities you want to do

Finding things to do and planning ahead can save you time and money. For those who are control freaks, you will get this right. You don’t necessarily have to plan every single thing you want to do if you would like to be more spontaneous on your trip. Sometimes not planning things bring on the most unique and exciting experiences. Try to have an idea of some things you want to do, though, because you don’t want to go to a destination blind (unless that is your thing). You want to do your research to see what is available.

5. Focus on each other

While you’re on vacation you want to place most of your attention on each other. You want to keep the romance alive and to do that you have to focus on your partner. Make sure to cut out excessive cell phone use and any other distractions to increase the amount of time you spend with your spouse. You want to really connect, so have the deeply personal conversations that you want to have and show more affection than usual.

The sole reason for a getaway is to escape from the outside world to bask in your partner’s love. Try to keep your vacation based on it only being you and your partner and no one else. This will be beneficial for the amount of attention you want to put on them and their needs.

6. Enjoy your relaxation

You want to relax on your vacation and not stress about things going on back at home. Try to avoid thinking too much about the past and the future so you can enjoy your vacation at the moment. Take a bath together or sit along the beachside and sip cocktails while observing the waves. You can even stay in and spend your day sleeping in and ordering room service.