Let’s talk about the first date, shall we? This is a great occasion to dress up, enjoy the attention of a potential partner, and the beautiful place where you have come together…
First Date Red Flags
It is also a chance to get to know the person you have met on Ladadate better and to understand whether it is worth continuing to reveal each other further. Here are a few signs that it is better to stop.
- A person scolds their ex and generally talks about past relationships:
It happens that past relationships do not let go, and a person still quarrels in their head with their ex-partner or yearns for them. Don’t expect to be able to help them. Relationships need to be built by the two of you, not three.
- A date is ready to marry you and comes up with the names of children:
Such haste does not mean that your potential partner is crazy about you, but that they are crazy in general. A reasonable person will not take serious steps without knowing at least a little about their future spouse. Most likely, they are terribly afraid of missing their chance.
- Always trying to please you:
This is a sign of great self-doubt — a person wants to please you so much that they completely forget about themselves. In a future relationship, you will be the very one who takes decisions and responsibility.
- They talk only about themselves and do not listen to you at all:
Showing off on a date is normal but in moderation. If a potential partner is not interested in you, then it is not clear why they asked you out.
- A person complains about friends, boss, and government:
We all get unhappy sometimes. But pouring out your negativity on an unfamiliar person who you also want to please is a strange strategy.
